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As we are becoming more willing to talk about death and more open about the process of dying, many of us are pre-planning our own funeral ceremony.  It might be that you know that the end of your life is in sight; or maybe it’s just something that you are thinking of for the future; perhaps you don’t know where to start; or that you already have some ideas but would like an experienced celebrant to help you to pull them together.  

 I can support you by:  

 Things I am not able to do:

 I’m not able to commit to being available to conduct your funeral when the time comes. This may seem self-evident, but is worth clarifying from the outset. Obviously, if you know you are dying, then you can insist the ceremony is arranged around my availability. Otherwise, neither of us know when you will need my services, so we won’t know whether I will be available (or even alive myself). However, by documenting your wishes, whoever does take over the responsibility of conducting your ceremony will have this information about your choices to work from.

 I’m not able to arrange the whole funeral. This will need to be done by your family and/or friends: either independently, or with the assistance of a Funeral Director (if your family decide to use one).  What I can and do offer is to help you make the ceremony part of the funeral the best, most appropriate and most personal that we can create.

 I’m not able to guarantee that your funeral ceremony wishes will be carried out. This will be in the hands of the family members and/or friends who are in charge of arranging your funeral.

 How much will I charge you?

For people who know they are approaching the end of their life and want me to conduct their ceremony, then I will not charge for the pre-preparation, but will simply charge my usual ceremony fee at the time of the funeral.

 For other people pre-planning their funeral ceremony the fee will depend on what support you would like from me. Examples of what I may charge are below but these are negotiable:

  1. A single visit to discuss what your options are and some advice about what you could do – £60 plus travel expenses;
  2. A single visit and then drafting the structure of a ceremony  – £120 plus expenses;
  3. More than one visit and drafting the structure of your ceremony plus making suggestions of reading, poems, music etc. – £170 plus travel expenses.

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